Category Archives: Time
The Partial Advice
We often hear the advice given to career seekers: “Do what you love” or “follow your passion.”
This is good advice, as far as it goes. It is terrible advice, however, for both what it omits and the huge caveat it fails to mention.
“Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.” – Confucius
So why should we be cautious of the advice to “do what you love”? Because we often aren’t clear on the one thing we truly love. As humans, we often deceive ourselves. When I try to focus on “what I Love” or “what I am passionate about,” I can think of dozens of things I love to do without breaking a sweat.
So now I still haven’t narrowed it down, but I realize it isn’t what I am doing. If I was able to narrow my passion down to a single item, I still have to know I am capable of monetizing it (if the goal is to “do what I am passionate about,” as a job, I am going to need to be able to make a living at it, correct?)
The Full Advice
While it is critical to do something you love and have a passion for, the full advice that should be given to career seekers has three parts:
- Do something you are passionate about; and
- Do something you are good at; and
- Do something you will work hard at.
The way to discover which path will lead to all three of these things is to analyze what you spend your time on. Time is the one resource that is a constant for every single person on this planet. Rich people don’t get more of it. You don’t get less opportunities for time if your country is poor or you are born into the wrong caste. Time is not subject to the whims of inflation, the foreign exchange rate, or interest rates. No matter what religion, ethnic group, gender, or political party you belong to – you receive the same 24 hours per day that every other person receives.
We all are going to die eventually. And we all know it. Each 24 hours brings us one day closer to the day we will die. We don’t get to choose the day we will die – but we absolutely do get to decide whether we will LIVE before that day rolls around! We exchange each 24 hours for one day of our life . . . whether we spent that day doing something we love, or with people we love – or as slave to the grind just making ends meet and wishing for the weekend.
We don’t get to choose the day we will die – but we absolutely do get to decide whether we will LIVE before that day rolls around!
Some people with the greatest faith have found themselves in the latter situation and simply quit, trusting in God that He would provide another job for them doing something they love. The problem is: a year or two into the new job, the person sometimes realizes that this is not their “Great Passion.”
The way to avoid all of this is not to “follow your passion” or “do what you love.” Instead “follow what you do with your time.” That is what you actually love. What you spend time at, you will become better at. As you become better, you will enjoy it more and more. This in turn, will tend to make you love it. As your passion grows, you will work hard to become better. This will cause you to enjoy it even more.
And so on.
Ultimately, getting “stuck” in an endless loop like that. . . isn’t a bad way to spend your Life!
To finding the Time of your Life,